Boy&girl flirting tricks

How to Flirt With a Man

Gone are the days when women were flirted with!! In this nex gen age, girls love it the other way round (i.e. to flirt with the guys). Almost all the women have a typical way of doing it. They drop such subtle hints of flirting that it is almost impossible to tell when she is flirting. Much unlike men, women are less showy and vocal when it comes to flirting. In case you are one amongst those girls who are still clueless about flirting, this article would come in handy. In the following lines, we have provided tips that should be able to solve your question of how to flirt with a man.

Flirting With Men

Give clear signals

Men are infamously bad at watching out for signals from women. Know what you want when you flirt and make sure your signals are clear and that they convey what you mean. If you genuinely want to meet people, then flirt by all means. Just make sure you know the difference between harmless flirting and the ones that have a sexual undertone.

You got it, you flaunt it

Flaunt those never ending legs of yours in that gorgeous black dress. Make the lipstick a shade darker and those heels an inch higher. If this is done, rest assured the heads would surely turn when you gracefully strut into the room! Guys take notice when girls dress sexy. With the dress in place, half the job is done.

Voice check

Modulate your voice to make it sound warm and polite. No one wants a drill machine or even a hostel warden for that matter. The tone and pitch of your voice must be pleasant and you can always make it sound sensuous once you learn how to modulate it.
Make the first move

Almost 95% men agree that they love it if a woman makes the first move. It not only shows the confidence of the woman, but also gives her a chance to choose her man!
Genuineness
If the man asks your number, give the genuine one. After all, you approached him and wouldn't want to blow him off, would you? It is better if you carry your personal business card, as it implies that you are interested. In case you don't want to give it, decline politely or ask for his number instead.
Smile

Flash that gorgeous smile of yours to the man you are interested in. Don't make it too direct. Stand with your back towards him, turn your head around and smile slowly and sensuously from over your shoulder. He will come to you as if you have just hypnotized him.
Be yourself
There is no point in being someone that you are not. It looks fake and is definitely not recommended, if you want to attract the right kind of man. Go out, have fun because that is when you are yourself. Who knows he might start responding favorably!!

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How to Flirt With a Woman

Flirting is an art. Not everyone can do it the right way, though all of them try! Women are not as flirtatious as men. So, if you are thinking that a cute chick will come up to you and say, "Hey, you are cute. Want to have coffee with me?"; I am sorry, but the chances are very slim. It is important for you to understand that flirting is all about interest and a man should never flirt with a woman that he doesn't want to get to know a little more. Remember, flirting with women should be done with much caution. You wouldn't want to send wrong signals and reach home with more than just a broken heart! In the following lines, we bring you some tried and tested tips for flirting with girls.
Flirting With Women

Grab the Chance

Next time you see that gorgeous woman in the party standing at a corner, don't shy away. Nothing will happen if you sit back and wait for someone else to flirt with her. Grab the chance. A little flirting never hurts anyone!
Eye Contact

Eye contact is very essential if you want to connect on a subtle, non-verbal manner. But it does not mean you stare at her like a hungry wolf eyeing its prey! Playfully looking at someone in the eyes is very gripping and it compels them to look back at you. Please don't look like you are trying to remember whether you switched off the gas or not! The "question mark" look is very confusing and a strict no-no.
Show Genuine Interest

Pay genuine attention to her. Nothing compares with showing genuine interest in a woman. Believe me, you will not be disappointed. Girls love it when someone shows a true interest in what they are doing. Not only would she be reciprocating, but who knows you might as well get a chance to ask her out!

Flatter By All Means

A great way to get a woman to show interest in you is by compliments that are flattering to her. A little bit of flattering is not going to harm you in any way! But make it a point that it is genuine. Flatter her by simply saying how gorgeous she looks and not by comparing her with stars, moon and other galactic objects! Women can easily detect if a compliment is fake and you wouldn't want to hear negative remark instead of a generous "Thank You"!
Have Fun

Don't be tensed. Just relax and have fun. After all, flirting is about having fun. It is easier to get her to roll along if you have fun. Don't get too carried away by the whole issue of flirting. Just keep it real and light. You are flirting with a woman, not trying to hunt down terrorists after all!

Smile
No matter how well you are dressed, how shiny your shoes are, your perfect look is never complete without that million-dollar smile. A smile can go a long way to establish a good impression about you. It also improves your face value! You unconsciously send a message that you are interested in that woman and would like to know her better. And it is always better to know what she feels through non-verbal communication before you actually set to flirt with her. The smile should be subtle yet visible and definitely not a smirk.